1.“I wish I would have known that men will tell you you are “crazy” and that your feelings are “crazy.”
But they are just doing it to diminish their culpability. Having feelings is normal and healthy, even when you were “just hooking up.” The title of ‘girlfriend’ isn’t a prerequisite to being able to mourn when a relationship is over. Don’t ever let someone make you feel silly because you cared.”
2.“My biggest regret is spending so much time being insecure about my body.
I wasted so much time being shy and not going after guys I wanted (and who, in retrospect, were totally into it) because I was convinced they wouldn’t think I was hot enough. The really cruel part is that now I look back and can see that I looked great! God. What a waste.”